Okokuqala, umxholo
Ngokuthetha ngokungqongqo, ukuqeqesha inja ayinxaxhile kuye. Ngokufanayo, ukuvumela inja yenze nantoni na ayifunayo ayiyithandi ngokwenene inja. Izinja zifuna ukukhokelwa ngokuqinileyo kwaye zinokuba nexhala ukuba azifundiswa njani kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
1. Nangona igama likuqeqesha inja, injongo yazo zonke uqeqesho kukufundisa umnini ukuba anxibelelane kwaye anxibelelane nenja engcono. Ngapha koko, i-IQ yethu kunye nokuqonda iphezulu kunewabo, ngoko kufuneka siqonde kwaye siziqhelanise. Ukuba awufundi okanye unxibelelane kakubi, ungalindeli ukuba inja izame ukuziqhelanisa, uya kucinga nje ukuba awuyi kuhlonipha.
2. Uqeqesho lwenja lusekwe kunxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Izinja azikuqondi oko sikuthethayo, kodwa unxibelelwano olusebenzayo kufuneka luqinisekise ukuba iminqweno yendoda kunye neemfuno zidluliselwa kwinja, oko kukuthi, inja kufuneka icinge ukuba ichanekile na okanye iphosakele, ukuze uqeqesho inokuba nentsingiselo. Ukuba umbetha kwaye umgqobhoze, kodwa akayazi into akonileyo, iya kumcaphukisa, kwaye indlela aziphethe ngayo ayiyi kulungiswa. Ngeenkcukacha ngendlela yokunxibelelana, nceda uqhubeke ukufunda ngezantsi.
3. Ithini le nto ishwankathela kukuba uqeqesho lwenja kufuneka ibe lide, kwaye ngokufanayo, ukuphindaphinda, kunye neephasiwedi ziyimfuneko kakhulu ngexesha loqeqesho. Umzekelo, ukuba uqeqesha inja ukuba ihlale phantsi, kufuneka uyenze kube kanye. Ndiyathemba ukuba angakufunda ngemini enye, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uqalise ukuthobela ngosuku olulandelayo; Sebenzisa igama eligqithisiweyo. Ukuba ngequbuliso itshintshwe 'ukuba usana luhlale phantsi "ngomso, aluyi kukwazi ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uyayitshintsha kwaye kwakhona, uya kudideka kwaye akasayi kukwazi ukufunda le ntshukumo; Inkuthazo efanayo inokufundwa emva kokuba amaxesha aphindaphindiweyo, kwaye imelwe kukuqiniswa emva kokufunda. Ukuba ufunda ukuhlala phantsi ungayisebenzisi rhoqo, inja iya kuyilibala; Inja ayiyi kutsala intembelo evela komnye umzekelo, ngoko imeko ibaluleke kakhulu kwiimeko ezininzi. Izinja ezininzi zifunda ukuthobela imiyalelo ekhaya, kodwa ayiqondi ukuba umyalelo ofanayo uyasebenza kuzo zonke iimeko xa ephuma kwaye etshintshe imeko yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekwe kumanqaku 2 ne-3, kusebenza kakhulu ukufumana umvuzo ocacileyo kunye nokohlwaya. Ukuba uthe tye, uya kuvuzwa, kwaye ukuba uthe waphosakele, uya kohlwaywa. Ukohlwaywa kunokubandakanya ukubetha, kodwa ubundlobongela obunobundlobongela kwaye ukubetha okuqhubekayo akucetyiswa. Ukuba uqhubeka nokubetha, uyakufumanisa ukuba ukuxhathisa inja ukubetha kukuphucula imihla ngemihla, kwaye ekugqibeleni ngenye imini uya kufumanisa ukuba ubuyintoni na, ayizukusebenza kangakanani. Kwaye ukubetha kufuneka kwenziwe xa inja yazi ukuba kutheni etywe, kwaye inja engazange iqonde ukuba kutheni eqondeni iya koyika umniniyo, kwaye ubuntu bakhe buya kuthobela kwaye bube nobukrakra. Isishwankathelo si: Ngaphandle kokuba ubambe ibhegi xa inja yenza impazamo, ingenza inja iqonde ukuba wenze impazamo ukuze ityhutywe, kwaye umthombo unzima kakhulu. Ayisebenzi kwaye uninzi lwabantu lucinga. Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa! Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa! Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa!
5. Uqeqesho lusekwe kwimo yenja ukuba inja ihlonipha inqanaba lobunkokeli benkosi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu uvile ithi: "Izinja zilungile kakhulu ekubekweni kweempumlo zabo". Ukuba inja ivakalelwa kukuba umnini ungaphantsi kuye, uqeqesho aluyi kuba luncedo.
I-6. I-IQ's IQ ayisiyonto iphezulu, ngenxa yoko musa ukulindela kakhulu. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga ilula kakhulu: indlela yokuziphatha ethile - fumana ingxelo (i-fit okanye i-good okanye i-ten) - iphindaphinde kwaye iphinde ifumane imvakalelo- kwaye ekugqibeleni iyayithanda. Worqeqeshe izinto ezingalunganga kwaye ufundise izinto ezichanekileyo kwindawo enye ukuze isebenze. Akukho sidingo sokuba neengcinga ezinje "yinja yam yingcuka, ndiyamphatha kakuhle", okanye ndisandimisa ", okanye isivakalisi esifanayo, inja ayikukhathalelanga into entle, unayo ukuhlonipha. . Intlonelo yenja ingasekelwanga kwimeko esekwe ngumnini kunye nokufundisa okuqinisekileyo.
7. Ukuhamba kunye nokungathathi cala kunokuphelisa iingxaki zokuziphatha, ngakumbi kwizinja ezingamadoda.
Nangona igama liye kuqeqesha inja, injongo yolu qeqesho kukufundisa umnini ukuba anxibelelane kwaye anxibelelane nenja ngcono. Ngapha koko, i-IQ yethu kunye nokuqonda iphezulu kunewabo, ngoko kufuneka siqonde kwaye siziqhelanise. Ukuba awufundi okanye unxibelelane kakubi, ungalindeli ukuba inja izame ukuziqhelanisa, uya kucinga nje ukuba awuyi kuhlonipha.
Uqeqesho lwenja lusekwe kunxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Izinja azikuqondi oko sikuthethayo, kodwa unxibelelwano olusebenzayo kufuneka luqinisekise ukuba iminqweno yendoda kunye neemfuno zidluliselwa kwinja, oko kukuthi, inja kufuneka icinge ukuba ichanekile na okanye iphosakele, ukuze uqeqesho inokuba nentsingiselo. Ukuba umbetha kwaye umgqobhoze, kodwa akayazi into akonileyo, iya kumcaphukisa, kwaye indlela aziphethe ngayo ayiyi kulungiswa. Ngeenkcukacha ngendlela yokunxibelelana, nceda uqhubeke ukufunda ngezantsi.
Ithini le nto ishwankathelo kukuba uqeqesho lwenja kufuneka kube lixesha elide, kunye nokuphindaphinda, kunye neephasiwedi ziyimfuneko kakhulu ngexesha loqeqesho. Umzekelo, ukuba uqeqesha inja ukuba ihlale phantsi, kufuneka uyenze kube kanye. Ndiyathemba ukuba angakufunda ngemini enye, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uqalise ukuthobela ngosuku olulandelayo; Sebenzisa igama eligqithisiweyo. Ukuba ngequbuliso itshintshwe 'ukuba usana luhlale phantsi "ngomso, aluyi kukwazi ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uyayitshintsha kwaye kwakhona, uya kudideka kwaye akasayi kukwazi ukufunda le ntshukumo; Inkuthazo efanayo inokufundwa emva kokuba amaxesha aphindaphindiweyo, kwaye imelwe kukuqiniswa emva kokufunda. Ukuba ufunda ukuhlala phantsi ungayisebenzisi rhoqo, inja iya kuyilibala; Inja ayiyi kutsala intembelo evela komnye umzekelo, ngoko imeko ibaluleke kakhulu kwiimeko ezininzi. Izinja ezininzi zifunda ukuthobela imiyalelo ekhaya, kodwa ayiqondi ukuba umyalelo ofanayo uyasebenza kuzo zonke iimeko xa ephuma kwaye etshintshe imeko yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekwe kumanqaku 2 ne-3, kusebenza kakhulu ukufumana umvuzo ocacileyo kunye nokohlwaya. Ukuba uthe tye, uya kuvuzwa, kwaye ukuba uthe waphosakele, uya kohlwaywa. Ukohlwaywa kunokubandakanya ukubetha, kodwa ubundlobongela obunobundlobongela kwaye ukubetha okuqhubekayo akucetyiswa. Ukuba uqhubeka nokubetha, uyakufumanisa ukuba ukuxhathisa inja ukubetha kukuphucula imihla ngemihla, kwaye ekugqibeleni ngenye imini uya kufumanisa ukuba ubuyintoni na, ayizukusebenza kangakanani. Kwaye ukubetha kufuneka kwenziwe xa inja yazi ukuba kutheni etywe, kwaye inja engazange iqonde ukuba kutheni eqondeni iya koyika umniniyo, kwaye ubuntu bakhe buya kuthobela kwaye bube nobukrakra. Isishwankathelo si: Ngaphandle kokuba ubambe ibhegi xa inja yenza impazamo, ingenza inja iqonde ukuba wenze impazamo ukuze ityhutywe, kwaye umthombo unzima kakhulu. Ayisebenzi kwaye uninzi lwabantu lucinga. Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa! Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa! Ukubetha inja akucetyiswa!
5. Uqeqesho lusekwe kwimo yenja ukuba inja ihlonipha inqanaba lobunkokeli benkosi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu uvile ithi: "Izinja zilungile kakhulu ekubekweni kweempumlo zabo". Ukuba inja ivakalelwa kukuba umnini ungaphantsi kuye, uqeqesho aluyi kuba luncedo.
I-6. I-IQ's IQ ayisiyonto iphezulu, ngenxa yoko musa ukulindela kakhulu. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga ilula kakhulu: indlela yokuziphatha ethile - fumana ingxelo (i-fit okanye i-good okanye i-ten) - iphindaphinde kwaye iphinde ifumane imvakalelo- kwaye ekugqibeleni iyayithanda. Worqeqeshe izinto ezingalunganga kwaye ufundise izinto ezichanekileyo kwindawo enye ukuze isebenze. Akukho sidingo sokuba neengcinga ezinje "yinja yam yingcuka, ndiyamphatha kakuhle", okanye ndisandimisa ", okanye isivakalisi esifanayo, inja ayikukhathalelanga into entle, unayo ukuhlonipha. . Intlonelo yenja ingasekelwanga kwimeko esekwe ngumnini kunye nokufundisa okuqinisekileyo.
7. Ukuhamba kunye nokungathathi cala kunokuphelisa iingxaki zokuziphatha, ngakumbi kwizinja ezingamadoda.
8. Nceda ungathathi isigqibo sokuyeka inja kuba engenguye ongathobeliyo. Cinga ngalo ngononophelo, uzenzele zonke iimbopheleleko ofanele ukuba unayo njengeNkosi? Ngaba umfundisile kakuhle? Okanye ngaba ulindele ukuba abe nesilumko kangangokuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba umfundise ukuba uza kufunda ngokuzenzekelayo izinto ozithandayo? Ngaba uyayazi kakuhle inja yakho? Uyonwabile ukuba umhle kuye? Ayithethi ukuba ukondla, ukumhlamba, aze achithe imali kuye ilungele yena. Nceda ungamshiyi yedwa ekhaya ixesha elide. Ukuya kuhamba inja ayonelanga ukuya kwi-pee. Udinga umthambo kunye nabahlobo. Nceda ungabi nalo umbono wokuba "inja yam ifanele inyaniseke kwaye ithobele, kwaye ifanele ibethwe ngam". Ukuba ufuna ukuhlonitshwa yinja yakho, kuya kufuneka uhlonele iimfuno zakhe ezisisiseko.
9. Nceda ungacingi ukuba inja yakho ivuthayo ngaphandle kwezinye izinja. Yindlela elungileyo yokuziphatha kwi-bark xa uphuma. Oku kuyakoyika abakhweli-kwaye sisizathu sokuqala sokungqubana phakathi kwabantu nezinja. Ngapha koko, izinja ezilula ukuba zikhonkotha okanye zinenkxalabo yokuziphatha enomdla kakhulu kwaye zingaphumli, engeyiyo imeko yezengqondo nezinzileyo yezinja. Nceda uphakamise inja yakho ngendlela evunyiweyo. Ungavumeli inja ivakale ukuba uwedwa kwaye ungancediwe ngenxa yokungakwazi ukusebenza komniniyo, kwaye ungazenzi ngxaki kwabanye.
10. Nceda ungayilindelanga kwaye ufune kakhulu ukusuka kwi-gouzi, kwaye nceda ungakhali ukhalaza ukuba akakhathazeki, ongathobeliyo kwaye akanakwazi. Njengomnini wezinja, kufuneka uqonde: okokuqala, wenze isigqibo sokugcina inja, kwaye ukhethe ukuthatha inja ekhaya, ke kubi njengomniniyo. Okwesibini, i-gouzi yiGouzi, awunakumfuna njengomntu, kwaye akukho ngqiqweni ukulindela ukuba akwenze oko akufundisayo. Okwesithathu, ukuba inja isemncinci, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba usengumntwana, usavavanya umhlaba kwaye uzama ukuqhelana nomniniyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iqhubeke Umncinci, wena kunye nokuhamba kwakhe yinkqubo yokuqonda kunye nokulungelelanisa. Yimfuneko engenakufikeleleka ukuze ulindele ukuba akuthathi njengeNkosi kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba eze ekhaya aze aqonde igama lakhe. Konke konke, umgangatho wenja ubonakalisa ngqo umgangatho womniniyo. Ixesha elininzi kunye nemfundo oyinika inja, kuya kuba nakho ukuzenza.
11. Nceda ungazizisi iimvakalelo zobuqu, ezinje ngomsindo kunye nokudandatheka, xa uQeqesha izinja (kutheni kungenjalo emva kokufundisa amaxesha amaninzi). Zama ukuba njengenjongo kangangoko kunokwenzeka kuqeqesho lwenja kwaye uxoxe ngezibakala njengoko zimi.
12. Zama ukukhusela indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga kwaye isikhokele indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba inja yenza iimpazamo.
13. Ulwimi lomntu ukuba inja enokuqonda ilinganiselwe kakhulu, emva kokuba eyenza into engalunganga, impendulo yomniniyo kunye nokuphatha (ulwimi lomzimba) lusebenza ngakumbi kunolwimi kunye noqeqesho ngabom. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga ijolise kakhulu kwindlela yokuziphatha kunye neziphumo. Emehlo kaGouzi, zonke izinto azenzayo ziya kukhokelela kwiziphumo ezithile. Ngapha koko, ixesha lokuba izinja zigxile kakhulu, kwaye ixesha elifanelekileyo libaluleke kakhulu xa linomvuzo kwaye lohlwaya. Ngamanye amagama, njengomnini, yonke intshukumo yakho iyaphendula kwaye uqeqesho lokuziphatha kwenja.
Ukunika umzekelo olula, xa inja Ahua yayiziinyanga ezintathu ubudala, wayethanda ukuluma izandla. Ngalo lonke ixesha ebuhle umniniyo F, futhi ungayithethi kwaye ichukumise i-ahua ngesandla esinye, ngethemba lokuba uza kuyeka ukuluma. . Uziva ukuba uqeqesho lwakhe lwalusendaweni, ngoko ke wathi, "
Impazamo yale ndlela kukuba inja icinga ukuba ichukunyiswe ngumvuzo / idlala naye, kodwa impendulo yangoko emva kokuba i-AH Huu kukumchukumisa. Ngamanye amagama, inja iya kudibanisa Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, abayi kunika na imiyalelo yomlomo, kwaye uAh Hhua uyaqonda ukuba akukho myalelo uthetha ukuba wenze into engalunganga. Ngenxa yoko, uAhua waziva ukuba inkosi yayivuza ngelixa itsho ukuba wenze into engalunganga, ngenxa yoko ayinakuqonda ukuba isenzo sakhe silungile okanye siphosakele.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: I-DEC-01-2023
