Okokuqala, ingcamango
Xa sithetha ngokungqongqo, ukuqeqesha inja akuyompatho embi kuye. Ngokufanayo, ukuvumela inja ukuba yenze nantoni na eyifunayo asikokuthanda ngokwenene inja. Izinja zifuna ukhokelo oluluqilima kwaye zinokuba nexhala ukuba azifundiswanga indlela yokusabela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
1. Nangona igama likukuqeqesha inja, injongo yalo lonke uqeqesho kukufundisa umniniyo ukunxibelelana nokunxibelelana kakuhle nenja. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-IQ yethu kunye nokuqonda kuphezulu kunokwabo, ngoko ke kufuneka siziqonde kwaye sizilungelelanise. Ukuba awufundisi okanye unxibelelana kakubi, ungalindelanga ukuba inja izame ukuziqhelanisa nawe, iya kucinga ukuba awuyiyo inkokeli efanelekileyo kwaye ayiyi kukuhlonipha.
2. Uqeqesho lwezinja lusekelwe kunxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Izinja azikwazi ukuyiqonda into esiyithethayo, kodwa unxibelelwano olusebenzayo kufuneka luqinisekise ukuba iminqweno kunye neemfuno zomnini zigqithiselwe kwinja, oko kukuthi, inja kufuneka iyazi ukuba ukuziphatha kwayo kuchanekile okanye kuphosakele, ukuze uqeqesho luphumelele. inokuba nentsingiselo. Ukuba uyambetha kwaye umthethise, kodwa engayazi into ayenzileyo, oko kuya kumenza akoyike, kwaye ukuziphatha kwakhe akuyi kulungiswa. Ngeenkcukacha malunga nendlela yokunxibelelana, nceda uqhubeke ufunda ngezantsi.
3. Yintoni eshwankathela kukuba uqeqesho lwenja kufuneka lube lwexesha elide, kwaye ngokufanayo, ukuphindaphinda, kunye neephasiwedi ziyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo ngexesha loqeqesho. Umzekelo, ukuba uqeqesha inja ukuba ihlale phantsi, kufuneka uyenze kube kanye kuphela. Ndiyathemba ukuba unokuyifunda ngosuku olunye, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuqala ukuthobela ngosuku olulandelayo; Sebenzisa eli gama lokugqithisa. Ukuba iguqulwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba "umntwana uhlale phantsi" ngomso, akayi kukwazi ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uyayitshintsha ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uya kudideka kwaye akayi kukwazi ukufunda esi senzo; isenzo esifanayo sinokufundwa kuphela emva kwamaxesha aphindaphindiweyo, kwaye kufuneka somelezwe ngenkuthalo emva kokufunda. Ukuba ufunda ukuhlala phantsi kwaye ungayisebenzisi rhoqo, inja iya kukulibala; inja ayiyi kutsala inferences kumzekelo omnye, ngoko ke indawo ibaluleke kakhulu kwiimeko ezininzi. Izinja ezininzi zifunda ukuthobela imiyalelo ekhaya, kodwa aziqondi ukuba umyalelo ofanayo usebenza kuzo zonke iimeko xa ziphuma kwaye zitshintshe indawo yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekelwe kwiNqaku 2 kunye ne-3, yeyona nto isebenzayo ukuba nemivuzo ecacileyo kunye nesohlwayo. Ukuba uthe walungisa, uya kuvuzwa; Isohlwayo sinokubandakanya ukubetha, kodwa ukubetha ngogonyamelo kunye nokubetha okuqhubekayo akukhuthazwa. Ukuba uqhubeka ubetha, uya kufumanisa ukuba ukuxhathisa kwenja ekubetheni kuya kuphucuka imihla ngemihla, yaye ekugqibeleni ngenye imini uya kufumanisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubetha kangakanani na, akusayi kusebenza. Kwaye ukubetha kufuneka kuqhutywe xa inja isazi isizathu sokuba ibethwe, kwaye inja engazange iqonde isizathu sokuba ibethwe iya kumoyika umniniyo, kwaye ubuntu bakhe buya kuba buthathaka kwaye bube neentloni. Isishwankathelo sithi: ngaphandle kokuba ubambe isikhwama kwindawo apho inja yenza iphutha, inokwenza inja iqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba wenze impazamo ngoko ibethelwe, kwaye ukudubula kunzima kakhulu. Ayisebenzi kakuhle njengoko abantu abaninzi becinga. Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa! Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa! Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa!
5. Uqeqesho lusekelwe kwisiseko sokuba inja ihlonipha ubunkokeli benkosi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu uye wayiva ingcamango yokuba "izinja zilungile kakhulu ekubekeni iimpumlo zabo ebusweni babo". Ukuba inja ivakalelwa kukuba umniniyo ungaphantsi kwayo, uqeqesho aluyi kuphumelela.
6. I-IQ kaGouzi ayikho phezulu, ngoko ungalindeli kakhulu. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga ilula kakhulu: indlela yokuziphatha ethile - fumana impendulo (elungileyo okanye engalunganga) - phinda kwaye wenze nzulu umbono - kwaye ekugqibeleni uyibambe kakuhle. Yohlwaya izenzo ezingalunganga kwaye ufundise izenzo ezichanekileyo kwindawo enye ukuba zisebenze. Akukho mfuneko yokuba neengcinga ezinje "inja yam yingcuka, ndiyiphatha kakuhle kwaye isandiluma", okanye isivakalisi esifanayo, inja ayinangqondo ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda ukuba xa uyiphatha kakuhle, unayo. ukukuhlonipha. . Intlonipho yenja isekelwe ngakumbi kwiwonga elimiselwe ngumniniyo nakwimfundiso esengqiqweni.
7. Ukuhamba kunye ne-neutering kunokunciphisa iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha, ngakumbi kwizinja zamadoda.
Nangona igama likukuqeqesha inja, injongo yalo lonke uqeqesho kukufundisa umniniyo ukunxibelelana nokunxibelelana kakuhle nenja. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-IQ yethu kunye nokuqonda kuphezulu kunokwabo, ngoko ke kufuneka siziqonde kwaye sizilungelelanise. Ukuba awufundisi okanye unxibelelana kakubi, ungalindelanga ukuba inja izame ukuziqhelanisa nawe, iya kucinga ukuba awuyiyo inkokeli efanelekileyo kwaye ayiyi kukuhlonipha.
Uqeqesho lwezinja lusekelwe kunxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Izinja azikwazi ukuyiqonda into esiyithethayo, kodwa unxibelelwano olusebenzayo kufuneka luqinisekise ukuba iminqweno kunye neemfuno zomnini zigqithiselwe kwinja, oko kukuthi, inja kufuneka iyazi ukuba ukuziphatha kwayo kuchanekile okanye kuphosakele, ukuze uqeqesho luphumelele. inokuba nentsingiselo. Ukuba uyambetha kwaye umthethise, kodwa engayazi into ayenzileyo, oko kuya kumenza akoyike, kwaye ukuziphatha kwakhe akuyi kulungiswa. Ngeenkcukacha malunga nendlela yokunxibelelana, nceda uqhubeke ufunda ngezantsi.
Oko kushwankathela kukuba uqeqesho lwenja kufuneka lube lwexesha elide, kwaye ngokufanayo, ukuphindaphinda, kunye neephasiwedi ziyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo ngexesha loqeqesho. Umzekelo, ukuba uqeqesha inja ukuba ihlale phantsi, kufuneka uyenze kube kanye kuphela. Ndiyathemba ukuba unokuyifunda ngosuku olunye, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuqala ukuthobela ngosuku olulandelayo; Sebenzisa eli gama lokugqithisa. Ukuba iguqulwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba "umntwana uhlale phantsi" ngomso, akayi kukwazi ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uyayitshintsha ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uya kudideka kwaye akayi kukwazi ukufunda esi senzo; isenzo esifanayo sinokufundwa kuphela emva kwamaxesha aphindaphindiweyo, kwaye kufuneka somelezwe ngenkuthalo emva kokufunda. Ukuba ufunda ukuhlala phantsi kwaye ungayisebenzisi rhoqo, inja iya kukulibala; inja ayiyi kutsala inferences kumzekelo omnye, ngoko ke indawo ibaluleke kakhulu kwiimeko ezininzi. Izinja ezininzi zifunda ukuthobela imiyalelo ekhaya, kodwa aziqondi ukuba umyalelo ofanayo usebenza kuzo zonke iimeko xa ziphuma kwaye zitshintshe indawo yangaphandle.
4. Ngokusekelwe kwiNqaku 2 kunye ne-3, yeyona nto isebenzayo ukuba nemivuzo ecacileyo kunye nesohlwayo. Ukuba uthe walungisa, uya kuvuzwa; Isohlwayo sinokubandakanya ukubetha, kodwa ukubetha ngogonyamelo kunye nokubetha okuqhubekayo akukhuthazwa. Ukuba uqhubeka ubetha, uya kufumanisa ukuba ukuxhathisa kwenja ekubetheni kuya kuphucuka imihla ngemihla, yaye ekugqibeleni ngenye imini uya kufumanisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubetha kangakanani na, akusayi kusebenza. Kwaye ukubetha kufuneka kuqhutywe xa inja isazi isizathu sokuba ibethwe, kwaye inja engazange iqonde isizathu sokuba ibethwe iya kumoyika umniniyo, kwaye ubuntu bakhe buya kuba buthathaka kwaye bube neentloni. Isishwankathelo sithi: ngaphandle kokuba ubambe isikhwama kwindawo apho inja yenza iphutha, inokwenza inja iqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba wenze impazamo ngoko ibethelwe, kwaye ukudubula kunzima kakhulu. Ayisebenzi kakuhle njengoko abantu abaninzi becinga. Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa! Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa! Ukubetha inja akukhuthazwa!
5. Uqeqesho lusekelwe kwisiseko sokuba inja ihlonipha ubunkokeli benkosi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu uye wayiva ingcamango yokuba "izinja zilungile kakhulu ekubekeni iimpumlo zabo ebusweni babo". Ukuba inja ivakalelwa kukuba umniniyo ungaphantsi kwayo, uqeqesho aluyi kuphumelela.
6. I-IQ kaGouzi ayikho phezulu, ngoko ungalindeli kakhulu. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga ilula kakhulu: indlela yokuziphatha ethile - fumana impendulo (elungileyo okanye engalunganga) - phinda kwaye wenze nzulu umbono - kwaye ekugqibeleni uyibambe kakuhle. Yohlwaya izenzo ezingalunganga kwaye ufundise izenzo ezichanekileyo kwindawo enye ukuba zisebenze. Akukho mfuneko yokuba neengcinga ezinje "inja yam yingcuka, ndiyiphatha kakuhle kwaye isandiluma", okanye isivakalisi esifanayo, inja ayinangqondo ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda ukuba xa uyiphatha kakuhle, unayo. ukukuhlonipha. . Intlonipho yenja isekelwe ngakumbi kwiwonga elimiselwe ngumniniyo nakwimfundiso esengqiqweni.
7. Ukuhamba kunye ne-neutering kunokunciphisa iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha, ngakumbi kwizinja zamadoda.
8. Nceda ungagqibi ukuyilahla inja ngenxa yokungathobeli. Cinga ngokucokisekileyo, ngaba ulufezekisile lonke uxanduva obufanele ukuba nalo njengenkosi? Umfundise kakuhle? Okanye ngaba ulindele ukuba alumke kangangokuba akuyomfuneko ukuba umfundise ukuba ngokuzenzekelayo uya kufunda izinto ozikhethayo? Ngaba ngokwenene uyayazi inja yakho? wonwabile Ingaba umhle nyani kuye? Ayithethi kuthi ukumtyisa, ukumhlamba nokuchitha imali kuye kulunge kuye. Nceda ungamshiyi yedwa ekhaya ixesha elide. Ukuphuma uhambe nenja akwanelanga ukuchama. Kwakhona ufuna umthambo kunye nabahlobo. Nceda ungabi nalo mbono wokuba "inja yam kufuneka ithembeke kwaye ithobele, kwaye kufuneka ibethwe ndim". Ukuba ufuna ukuhlonelwa yinja yakho, kufuneka uhloniphe iimfuno zakhe ezisisiseko.
9. Nceda ungacingi ukuba inja yakho ibukhali kunezinye izinja. Kukuziphatha kakuhle ukukhonkotha xa uphuma. Oku kuya koyikisa abadlula ngendlela, kwaye ikwasisizathu sokuqala songquzulwano phakathi kwabantu nezinja. Ngaphezu koko, izinja ekulula ukukhonkotha okanye ukuziphatha ndlongondlongo ubukhulu becala zixhalabile kwaye aziphumli, engeyiyo imeko yengqondo ezinzileyo nesempilweni yezinja. Nceda ukhulise inja yakho ngendlela ephucukileyo. Musa ukuvumela inja ivakalelwe kukuba uwedwa kwaye awunakuzinceda ngenxa yokungakwazi komniniyo, kwaye ungabangeli inkathazo kwabanye.
10. Nceda ungalindeli kwaye ufune into eninzi kuGouzi, kwaye ndicela ungakhalazi ukuba unamanyala, akathobeli kwaye akanalwazi. Njengomnini wenja, kufuneka uqonde: okokuqala, wenze isigqibo sokugcina inja, kwaye ukhethe ukuthatha inja ekhaya, ngoko kufuneka ubhekane nokulungileyo kunye nokubi kwakhe njengomnini. Okwesibini, iGouzi yiGouzi, awukwazi ukumfuna njengomntu, kwaye akukho ngqiqweni ukulindela ukuba enze oko akuthethayo ngokukhawuleza xa efundiswa. Okwesithathu, ukuba inja isencinci, kufuneka uqonde ukuba isengumntwana, isahlola ihlabathi kwaye izama ukuqhelana nomniniyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ibaleke kwaye ibangele iingxaki kuba isekhona. umncinci, wena kunye naye Ukuvana kwakhona yinkqubo yokuqondana kunye nokuziqhelanisa. Yimfuno engekho ngqiqweni ukulindela ukuba ikubone njengenkosi kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba ibuyile ekhaya kwaye iliqonde igama layo. Kuzo zonke, umgangatho wenja ubonisa ngokuthe ngqo umgangatho womnini. Ixesha elininzi kunye nemfundo oyinika inja, kokukhona iya kukwazi ukwenza ngcono.
11. Nceda ungazisi iimvakalelo zomntu, ezifana nomsindo kunye nokukhungatheka, xa uqeqesha izinja (kutheni emva kokufundisa amaxesha amaninzi). Zama ukuba nenjongo kangangoko ekuqeqesheni inja kwaye uxoxe ngeenyani njengoko zimi.
12. Zama ukuthintela ukuziphatha okungalunganga kwaye ukhokele indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba inja yenze iimpazamo.
13. Ulwimi lwabantu inja enokuluqonda lulinganiselwe kakhulu, ngoko emva kokuba yenze into engalunganga, impendulo yomniniyo ngokukhawuleza kunye nokusingatha (ulwimi lomzimba) lusebenza ngakumbi kunolwimi oluthethwayo kunye noqeqesho lwangabom. Indlela kaGouzi yokucinga igxile kakhulu ekuziphatheni nakwiziphumo. Emehlweni kaGouzi, zonke izenzo zakhe ziya kubangela iziphumo ezithile. Ngaphezu koko, ixesha lokugxila kwezinja lifutshane kakhulu, ngoko ke ixesha elifanelekileyo libaluleke kakhulu xa kunomvuzo kunye nokohlwaya. Ngamanye amazwi, njengomnini, yonke intshukumo yakho yingxelo kunye noqeqesho lokuziphatha kwenja.
Ukunika umzekelo olula, xa inja i-Ahua yayineminyaka eyi-3 ubudala, yayithanda ukuluma izandla zayo. Ngalo lonke ixesha eluma umniniyo uF, uF wayesithi hayi aze achukumise uAhua ngesandla esinye, enethemba lokuba uya kuyeka ukuluma. . U-F wayevakalelwa kukuba uqeqesho lwakhe lukhona, ngoko wathi hayi, kwaye wamtyhalela kude u-Ah Hua, kodwa u-Ah Hua wayengenakukwazi ukufunda ukungalumi, ngoko wayekhungathekile kakhulu.
Impazamo yale ndlela yokuziphatha kukuba inja icinga ukuba ichukunyiswe ngumvuzo / idlala naye, kodwa u-F usabela ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba u-Ah Hua eluma kukumchukumisa. Ngamanye amazwi, inja iya kunxulumanisa ukuluma = ukubanjwa = ukuvuzwa, ngoko engqondweni yakhe umniniyo ukhuthaza ukuziphatha kokuluma. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, u-F akayi kunika imiyalelo yomlomo, kwaye u-Ah Hua uyaqonda ukuba akukho myalelo uthetha ukuba wenze into engalunganga. Ngoko ke, uAhuwa wavakalelwa kukuba inkosi yayizivuza ngoxa yayisithi wenze into ephosakeleyo, ngoko wayengaqondi enoba isenzo sokuluma isandla sakhe sasilungile okanye sasiphosakele.
Ixesha lokuposa: Dec-01-2023
